So it's safe to say my b/f's mom has a problem with our relationship. She's already voiced her opinions before. And she has yet to try to get to know me. I guess it's easier to be nasty to a person if you don't know them as a person. she just leaves me as a random person...a stranger if you will.
I really think there is an issue that is not being addressed b/c it's going on a year and u still have not met me. Are you not curious to see who ur son is dating and going to see? And now we have phone restrictions! Are you serious? Did you forget that ur son is grown!?!?!?!?!?! All these stunts and shows are not doing anything except wedging a gap between u and ur child. I get it...ur scared to let him go, but why would he stay if ur acting like that. He would resent you in the end, and will you pat urself on the back then?
This is our relationship and what happens in it will be on our terms. I fear that her attempts might get the best of us and I might lose him. I'd hate for that to happen b/c it shouldn't. It's not for her to decide or determine. Plus the ship to annouce that u have a problem has sailed. It is out to sea! LOL. If there is a problem then I think it is time that we all sit and talk about this. Or just you and ur son, and then you pull me to the side to talk at a later time. But all this tomfoolery and excuses are masking a bigger problem that obviously doesn't need to be avoided.
I am not a bad person and she could see that if she gave me a chance...
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